Awkward family visit shifts to raucous fun
Whatever you do, don’t embarrass me in front of my family,” my husband implored before we left on a trip to Okinawa, his birthplace, on New Year’s Day. Read more
She Speaks
Eating disorders lead to death for too many
Writing about eating disorders, or any mental illness, isn’t easy. They’re hard to understand and thus easy to judge, and sometimes the judgment can be cruel and damaging. Read more
Summer of good deeds establishes habit of helping
There are lots of things families can do together to give back, from baking for neighborhood librarians to an organized Sustainable Coastlines beach cleanup and helping build a butterfly garden at Kahuku Farms. Read more
Separation a civilized solution for couples in need of sleep
They say couples shouldn’t go to bed angry — but they shouldn’t wake up angry either. Read more
In hindsight, presidential selfie plan had flaws
Not every journalist gets a chance to cover the POTUS. So when it was time for President Barack Obama’s final Christmas vacation in Hawaii as commander-in-chief, one reporter jumped at the opportunity. Read more
Couple’s trip to bridal expo unveils information overload
In addition to typical offerings for flowers, food and photos, the recent Hawaii Bridal Expo at the Blaisdell Exhibition Hall featured businesses advertising drone videography, a photo booth in a bus, fireknife dancers, mail-order tuxedos and custom candy stations. Read more
Confidence, strength grow during decade of motherhood
The challenges that come with raising a child are never-ending. Read more
Naked to the roots — and 50 shades of gray
Life is a journey. And so is going gray. Read more
Culture and family make New Year’s special
Family traditions become even more meaningful as the years go by — in a crazy world with so many distractions, they’re an important way to remember your roots. Read more
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Kids restore holiday delight dulled by adulthood
The thing with young children is that Christmas is only as special as you make it for them. Read more
Long-ago letter to Santa whispers wisdom
A scrawled note is a heart-tugging reminder that Christmas and birthdays shouldn’t be the only occasions when we bestow gifts upon our children. Read more
Winning isn’t everything, but it feels awesome
Star-Advertiser columnist Kristen Consillio was recently reminded she’s in it to win it when it comes to friendly family competition. Read more
Giving thanks for most exceptional Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving took Star-Advertiser columnist Celia Downes to Virginia and New York this year, making for a holiday to truly cherish — plus a surprise. Read more
Holiday survival depends on less stress and more joy
On top of the usual, everyday mommy responsibilities, the holidays mean presents need to be bought, postal deadlines met, the tree trimmed and more. Read more
Mom enables dependency in 20-something son
Yes, it’s true that for all my son’s life I have overseen his medical and dental welfare and written the checks to pay the bills. Am I an enabler? Read more
Sometimes in life, compromise means not saying go take a hike
“She Speaks” columnist Kristen Consillio conquers a mountain — literally — and discovers how important it is to have loved ones who motivate you to try new things. Read more
Children put whole new spin on cleaning out years of junk
I thought I knew how to clean until babies came into the picture. Read more
Family’s coinciding big days increase allure of Halloween
I love Halloween like I love candy corn, which I can eat all day, every day, all fall long. Read more
Parents’ ashes kept close to heart until ready for final resting place
My dad died 10 years ago this month. It was the day of the Kiholo Bay earthquakes — a ground shift in many regards. And just as with my mother, Tutu, who died 15 years ago and whose ashes I have yet to scatter off Waikiki, there is unfinished business with my father. Read more
Priorities change at 40, life no longer ‘all about me’
Whoever said 40 was fabulous? I turned the big 4-0 earlier this year and I don’t look, or feel, extraordinary like those 40-something celebrity moms with their perfect bikinibodies or the ambitious power-suit wearing businesswomen who seemingly have it all — thriving families and successful careers. Read more
Newfound taste prompts exploration of craft beers
For the most part, I lead a fairly healthy lifestyle. I work out most days of the week, rarely touch plate lunches and drink tons of water. Sure, I’m a fan of pizza and Spam musubiand lying around for half the day, but I don’t indulge in those things all the time. Read more
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